Tough things happen. Sometimes they are out of your control, sometimes you only have yourself to blame. Regardless of the circumstance, crummy life events are a recurring test of intrinsic morale. That is something I have always struggled with, having trouble not finding self-blame in situations outside of my control.
This is to say that, entering a new decade, I can confidently say I have been able to make visible strides to handle these situations in a much healthier way. I have Australia to thank for this. It gave me so many things, including numerous lessons. These lessons were about myself as well as the world around me; I was able to see a larger picture outside of myself and better interpret my role in it.
Moving to another country, even temporarily, gave me an opportunity for rapid and intense self growth. I can now catch what life throws at me, rather than letting it knock me down. This doesn’t necessarily take my struggles away, but certainly helps me maintain a homeostasis through them.
Traveling is intimidating, but is a well worth it experience. There are beautiful sights and beautiful people, but the most lasting impact is the one it has on your intrinsic perspective. It helps you assess yourself at a much truer level and gives room for changes and improvements at a level you may have not considered achievable.