Studying abroad in Italy was one of the most enriching and eye-opening experiences of my life. Not only did I have the opportunity to immerse myself in a new culture and learn about its history and traditions, but I also gained a deeper understanding of cultural differences and how they can shape our perspectives and ways of life.
One of the most striking cultural differences I noticed while studying in Italy was the emphasis on relationships and community. In the United States, where I am from, individualism is highly valued, and it is not uncommon for people to prioritize their own needs and goals above those of their community. In contrast, I noticed that Italians place a strong emphasis on family, friendship, and community, and they often prioritize the well-being of their loved ones above their own.
For example, during my time in Italy, I was struck by the importance of the “passeggiata,” or evening stroll, which is a common practice in many Italian cities. This is a time for families and friends to come together, often dressed in their finest clothes, and take a leisurely walk through the streets, chatting and catching up with one another. It was a beautiful and heartwarming sight to see people of all ages, from young children to elderly grandparents, participating in this tradition.
Another cultural difference I noticed was the importance of food and mealtimes in Italian culture. Meals are often seen as a time to come together and enjoy each other’s company, and it is not uncommon for Italians to spend several hours at the dinner table, savoring each course and engaging in lively conversation. This was a refreshing change from the fast-paced, grab-and-go culture of the United States, where meals are often seen as a necessary but rushed part of the day.
I think that the differences in culture have made me think about how to better respond to differences I may encounter within my own life, during my educational and professional journey. Allowing yourself to view a difference or misunderstanding from a different way of thinking can allow you to come to a resolution that can be beneficial for both parties involved. A different way of doing things may be frustrating at first but it can also yield positive results. The laid-back style of the Italian culture frustrated me sometimes when I was in a hurry. Through reflection, I realized that if I gave myself more time to do things then I could enjoy them more while still getting things done on time. This reduced my frustration and allowed myself to understand their perspective.
Overall, my experience studying abroad in Italy has taught me to be more open-minded and understanding of cultural differences. It has helped me to see that there are many different ways of living and that each culture has its own unique strengths and values. This experience has also made me more appreciative of the diversity of the world and has given me a greater sense of empathy and compassion for others.