When I think about aspects of the Culture in the United States, there are a lot of aspects that stick out. To name one in particular, individualism is a key trait Americans are known to have. This means Americans tend to be more concerned with the individual(s) than the community. This is a very well-known trait of Americans and is said to be the highest in the Hoftstead dimensions. These dimensions are key to identifying different cultures, and how a majority of people view certain topics such as how they express emotions, treat hierarchies, their chance of avoiding risk, and more. Individualism has always stood out more than other countries when I have been in classes studying different cultures.
Being an International Business major, the main aspect is to be open to learning about new ideas from countries and adaptability. Looking at this trait I have a mixed feeling of positivity and negativity. I think with the correct dosages and attention it can be good. One needs to look at oneself to preserve health or manage balance with those closest to us. However, if this gets out of hand, this can be damaging not only to the person but those around them, which happens time and time again in America. We see people doing what they can to get more money, climb a social ladder, or make sure they are successful, not looking at how they are affecting those around them. There are often wakes felt in these movements, politically, economically, and socially, and effect those who are famous people equally to those closest to us.
I think this trait is what makes other cultures either like Americans or dislike them. It is known others from different countries are not always the hugest fans of Americans, and find when I go abroad I try to not stick out as an American. Friends from other countries have expressed a view of individualism as selfish behavior and some view that we need to work together. However, while in these conversations, it comes up that Western ideas and traits leak into people’s thinking and more people around the world are becoming more “individualistic” but debatably – healthier. There is a management of caring for others and making sure you advocate yourself, that I find Americans can learn from as well.
As I prepare to leave, this is something on my mind constantly. How can I find the perfect balance of advocating for myself, ensuring my success, but remembering and helping those around me? I find this is a fine line. There will be learning, listening, and watching that always takes place to apprehend how to think of the group as a whole, even in my own decisions. I know where I am going is not the most collectivist, but it is much more than it is in the States. I feel this is a good lesson to be cognizant of in the actions I take, verbally and nonverbally. People around me will know I am American, and I am proud of that aspect, but what is even more special is to become a melting pot of ideas and traits from the places I have been.