Saying goodbye is never easy.
I said my final goodbyes to my SIT classmates and staff a few days ago. I am still in Bali with my mom traveling here for another two weeks. Although I have not left Bali, I can already tell that I am greatly going to miss this place. I am going to miss the smiles of the Indonesian people, the vibrant and lush nature, the street dogs, Nasi Goreng, and of course all the incredible people I have met along this journey.
One of the most important aspects of traveling is the reflection process that occurs after. I realize that there are certain things that I will continue to process my experience abroad in the upcoming months. I have a feeling reverse culture shock is going to be the most difficult.
The identity of myself and classmates were often challenged, but ultimately these challenges are what helped us grow the most. Boundaries were sometimes crossed and some of my classmates felt threatened. This led to misunderstanding and judgement. Fortunately with the help of our program director and of each other we were able to discuss these events and process cultural and social differences. We were reminded to lower our expectations and continue to retain an open-mind. It was difficult at times, but it became rewarding. By letting go of judgement, you were able to connect more strongly with other individuals.
I know that have changed during my time abroad. Perhaps my identity has even changed. I recognize that identity does impact how you view and experience the world, however, I think at the end of the day we are all more alike than unalike. We share common experiences even if they manifest in different forms. I have met so many people from around the world during my time in Bali and we are always able to find something in common. Even with language barriers, I was still able to connect with people. Indeed, communication does not always have to come from speaking words. It can happen through music, dancing, cooking, or even taking a walk together.
The growth that comes from traveling and living abroad is very unique. I am incredibly grateful for the beautiful experiences as well as challenges that came across during my time in Indonesia. My worldview has expanded and even changed in some ways. I am mostly nervous about coming home and having to renegotiate my identity and place back in the US. Thankfully, I have more trips and experiences to look forward to.
To anyone thinking about studying abroad or going abroad: DO IT!