{"id":20346,"date":"2021-10-15T09:37:25","date_gmt":"2021-10-15T13:37:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.rollins.edu\/letters\/?p=20346"},"modified":"2021-10-15T10:13:24","modified_gmt":"2021-10-15T14:13:24","slug":"blog-prompt-2-be-kind","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.rollins.edu\/letters\/2021\/10\/15\/blog-prompt-2-be-kind\/","title":{"rendered":"Blog Prompt #2- Be Kind!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<pre class=\"wp-block-code\"><code>So far, I\u2019ve been having the best semester of my college career. I can confidently say I\u2019m the happiest I\u2019ve ever been. However, this is not implying that I haven\u2019t felt homesick and\/or being faced with cultural confrontation. The cultural aspect that is being the hardest for me to adapt to is how kind people are. I know, sounds extremely ridiculous, but coming from the US, which has a very individualistic culture, it's not surprising to feel this way. I hope my fellow peers can relate.\nIt's very easy to notice this drastic cultural difference. Everywhere I go people are kind and respectful. In the Tube (London\u2019s subway system) people will respect your personal space, be quiet and apologize if they believe they have acted improperly. Even at pubs, people are extremely polite, they voluntarily do lines for the bar and it seems like this is an unspoken rule that should be thoroughly followed. The fact that people act this way is amazing and I truly believe that everyone should take of page from their book. Nevertheless, I\u2019m not there yet. More often than not, I find myself being pushy, getting in people\u2019s spaces, talking louder than normal, and worst of all, being unapologetic about all of it. Safe to say, I\u2019ve received plenty of judgmental faces and that is the reason why I get frustrated at this beautiful kindness. The \u201cnormal\u201d behaviors I practice back home are now perceived as strange and disrespectful. So, naturally, I feel frustrated at the fact that people here expect me to not be my \u201cAmerican myself\u201d. \nOn a more positive note, I\u2019m getting kinder and feeling less frustrated every day. At the pace that I\u2019m going, I can see myself becoming as kind as the British. Who knows, maybe when I come back to the US my friends will feel like I felt when I just got here. <\/code><\/pre>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":635,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[48],"tags":[369],"class_list":["post-20346","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-capa","tag-rollinsabroad"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.rollins.edu\/letters\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20346","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.rollins.edu\/letters\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.rollins.edu\/letters\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.rollins.edu\/letters\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/635"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.rollins.edu\/letters\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20346"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.rollins.edu\/letters\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20346\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20353,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.rollins.edu\/letters\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20346\/revisions\/20353"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.rollins.edu\/letters\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20346"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.rollins.edu\/letters\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20346"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.rollins.edu\/letters\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20346"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}